Couple Insights

I've come this far, I might as well keep going. There are a few other "tags" out there that I think are fun. And since February is the month of love, I might as well sneak this one in there while I still can. Feel free to do the same if you feel so inclined!

♥ What are your middle names? Zufelt (me), Jeffrey (Brandon)
♥ How long have you been together? 1 year – married 6 months.
♥ How long did you know each other before you started dating? 14 years….sort of. We went out once in

high school, but haven't seen each other since.
♥ Who asked who out? Brandon asked me first, and I couldn't go, and then I blew him off a few times, and

then I asked him if he wanted to hang out, and it ended up being a date with all sorts of chemistry!
♥Who said I love you first? Brandon – I refused to be the first….but I easily could have because I knew

pretty early on.
♥ How old are each of you? 28 – Brandon is one month older than me.
♥ Who's siblings do you see the most? Mine, none of his siblings are in Utah, we wish we saw them more.
♥ Do you have any children together? Not yet, but he keeps telling me he wants to get me knocked up on

our 1 year anniversary..haha….we’ll see about that.
♥ What about pets? – We currently have a robotic dog named sparky. Someday we'll upgrade to the mammal kind. Brandon is the ultimate animal lover, we’ll definitely be dog people someday.

don't have much of a say in it, but I'm sure I'll figure out how to be a dog person some day.
♥ Did you go to the same schools? Yes, same high school, but we were at BYU-Idaho, and BYU-Provo at

opposite times.
♥ Are you from the same hometown? Yep! We grew up 2 miles apart.
♥ Who is the smartest? Brandon thinks he is…..and I let him think he is (which I think really makes me the

smartest!) We are both smart about different things, which makes us compliment one another very well.
♥ Who is the most sensitive? Definitely me….definitely
♥ Where do you eat out most as a couple? Pei Wei, Rumbi, Costco!
♥ Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple? Florida
♥ Who has the craziest ex? He does, I don’t even know her, but she keeps asking to be my friend on

facebook.
♥ Who has the worst temper? I do. I was shocked to discover this, but I definitely am a bit more volatile than

Brandon, he pretty much always remains calm and quiet.
♥ Who does the cooking? Me, Brandon helps sometimes. Sometimes he brings home dinner so I don't have to

cook.
♥Who is the most social? Me, I thrive on it. Brandon is naturally a bit more introverted, but still an amazing

conversationalist and a great listener.
♥ Who is the neat-freak? Brandon in some ways, me in others….we’re a good balance.
♥ Who is the most stubborn? We both are pretty stubborn. He might be a bit more than me though.
♥ Who wakes up earlier? Neither of us….mornings are always a struggle.
♥ Where was your first date? Pei Wei for dinner, my house for Dirty Marbles.
♥Who has the bigger family? Our families are the same size, but he is closer to his extended family, so his feels

bigger.
♥Do you get flowers often? Nada, they’re not a very “practical” gift, but he knows they are a sure way to

always make me happy.
♥ Who do you spend the holidays with? Both.
♥ Who is more jealous? Neither one of us.
♥ Who sings better? That would probably be me, but Brandon sings more than me around the house.
♥Who does the laundry? Mostly me, but he does it too sometimes.
♥ Who’s better with the computer? Me, he is secretly jealous of my computer savvyness!
♥ Who drives when you are together? Brandon – according to him, it’s a man’s job. I’m fine with it. I don’t

love driving anyway.
♥ Who picks where you go to dinner? We try to decide together, but I feel like I usually make the final call

'cuz Brandon is usually up for anything.
♥ Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong? Probably Brandon. But that's because I don't ever do

anything wrong!
♥ Who named your pet? I came up with the name for our robo dog Sparky, but when the real dogs show up, no doubt Brandon will name them…..because frankly, I don’t really care!
♥ Who wears the pants in the relationship? I have no idea....I think we have one pant leg each.
♥ Who eats more sweets? It’s probably equal. I eat them more regularly, but when there are any large amounts

in the house, Brandon gorges on them!
♥ Who cries more? DEFINITELY me!
♥ Are you still together? You Betcha! Together Forever!

What My Playlist Says About Me

I am not usually the kind of person to do these, but this looked fun - and since I am at a loss lately of what to post, I will be using ideas from other people. This was kinda fun. Most of the songs that came up were actually quite applicable to the question. It's fun just to let your music play on shuffle and just sit back and listen to your randomness. But this little exercise reminded me yet once again how much I love my music! When I learn how, I will try to include the song where possible so you could enjoy them as much as I do.

1. Put your iTunes, mp3, or media player on shuffle
2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer
3. You must write down the name of the song no matter how silly it sounds!
4. Put any comments in brackets after the song name.

p.s... . . . . . . . no cheating!

How many of these have I done?
Brand New Colony- The Postal Service

There's always a first time for everything. I'm brand new to this kind of thing!

If someone says, "Is this okay?" you say?

Sirens- String Cheese Incident

I'll always tell you the truth, but you'll never question if I love you! favorite line of this song - "I just want to say I love you, make sure you feel it everyday"

How would you describe yourself?
The Loving Sounds of Static- Mobius Band

I'm not sure how this describes me, maybe the more you get to know me, the more you find to love that you didn't expect to.

What do you like in a guy/girl?
Holding Out for a Hero- Frou Frou

How perfect is this? Luckily, I already found my hero!

How do you feel today?
Pig- Dave Matthews Band

Ya, so...I've got to be a little more regular at the gym & stop eating entire bags of popcorn....this is no secret.

What is your life's purpose?
I’ll Do Anything – Jason Mraz

I will - I'm not always the planner, but most often, I'm up for just about anything.....and if you dare me, I'll try just about anything once....except sky diving, sorry Brandon.

What is your motto?
Please Forgive Me- David Gray

I hate feeling unaware of myself, and if that negatively effects anyone around me. So if it does....please do forgive. I'm usually very quick to say sorry, now I know why....it's my life motto! Who knew?

What do your friends think of you?
Did you Ever Look So Nice- The Samples That's right....I'm one hot stylin' lady. I know you all are jealous...always have been....just admit it!

What do you think of your parents?

I’ve Got My Love to Keep Me Warm- Billie Holiday

My parents have instilled me with so much love and acceptance that I keep it with me and take it wherever I go.

What do you think about very often?

Something to Talk about- Badly Drawn Boy

I am a good conversationalist. If there's nothing to talk about, I can usually come up with a question that'll get you talking.

What do you think of your best friend?

I Will- The Beatles

I love this song! The first line of the lyrics say, “Who knows how long I’ve loved you, you know I’ve love you still…" I love my best friends....and I know we've been friends before we came here, and will be long after we're gone.

What do you think of the person you like?

The Kissing Song- Dawn Landes

Are you kidding me? This is like one of my favorite love songs....I LOVE kissing my husband...it still gives me butterflies.

What is your life story?

Don’t Think Twice it’s alright- Bob Dylan

I generally consider myself a pretty easy going...go with the flow person.

What do you want to be when you grow up?

Always a Use- Madeleine Peyroux-

I want to always be useful, making a difference in the lives of others.

What do you think of when you see the person you like?

Never Let you Go- William Fitzsimmons

Yup! He's all mine, for all eternity, and I couldn't be happier about it!

What will you dance to at your wedding?

If You Want to Sing Out, Sing Out- Cat Stevens-

We didn't get to do a dance at my wedding, but this would have worked. It was actually supposed to be The Way You Look Tonight by Tony Bennett, but oh well! This is a happy song too!

What will they play at your funeral?

Flower Duet- Delibas Lakme

This was actually amazingly fitting because I have just acquired this song, and have listened to it on repeat over and over and over. It is so fulfilling to my soul. I would be fine playing this at my funeral, the harmony in this song gives me chills.

What is your hobby/interest?

Scenic World- Beirut

I LOVE to travel. I wish I could be rich and just plan trips.....I'm excited for me and my husband to go on our first trip together.

What is your biggest fear?

Multiply- Jamie Lidell -

hmmm....I'll have to ponder on this a big. I'm not scared of clones, or having children, or rabbits....and this cannot be connected in anyway to my true phobia - being chased......maybe it's a latent phobia yet to surface.....

What is your biggest secret?

Suddenly I See- KT Tunstall

I have Xray vision that is only activated by a secret word....As soon as someone says it, I usually can see just about anything through anything I want. Shhhh....don't tell.

What do you think of your friends?

Fields of Gold- Sting

I have been blessed with amazing friends and people in my life.